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While I agree with the sentiments of Lady A's post, I'm not sure I'd categorise this thread as "uncivilised", certainly not in comparison with some of the arguments in the past. I also hope it won't dissuade Lady A from posting more in the future. Cloudscape probably has a point about cliques so the more new contributors the better.
It's always going to be difficult when someone comes here asking for advice, disappears for a few years while they remodel their property against all/most of that advice and then reappear asking what people think of the final result - especially when, presumably, they are very pleased with the results and, understandably, have that proud feeling about a long hard job finally finished. To then have their bubble burst by opinions not aligned with their own is obviously going to be a bit of a disappointment, shock even. But things are what they are, not what we might want them to be.
Gareth's post, I thought, described the situation very fairly, acknowledging both ways of looking at the work, but on a forum largely populated by people interested in conserving period features, their elimination was never going to receive much approval.
Penners was, of course, right about the futility of debating matters of taste and, in that respect, I hope Jill is very happy with her new home. Fortunately, people are largely free to do what they wish with their own homes, and I wouldn't want to change that. The price of that freedom is that some people will make changes that other people don't like, but the world would be a bland place if everyone had the same taste (although I suppose everyone would also be happy with everything). The loss of such freedom would be a far greater worry, to me at least.
It's always going to be difficult when someone comes here asking for advice, disappears for a few years while they remodel their property against all/most of that advice and then reappear asking what people think of the final result - especially when, presumably, they are very pleased with the results and, understandably, have that proud feeling about a long hard job finally finished. To then have their bubble burst by opinions not aligned with their own is obviously going to be a bit of a disappointment, shock even. But things are what they are, not what we might want them to be.
Gareth's post, I thought, described the situation very fairly, acknowledging both ways of looking at the work, but on a forum largely populated by people interested in conserving period features, their elimination was never going to receive much approval.
Penners was, of course, right about the futility of debating matters of taste and, in that respect, I hope Jill is very happy with her new home. Fortunately, people are largely free to do what they wish with their own homes, and I wouldn't want to change that. The price of that freedom is that some people will make changes that other people don't like, but the world would be a bland place if everyone had the same taste (although I suppose everyone would also be happy with everything). The loss of such freedom would be a far greater worry, to me at least.